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If You Choose Arbitration
How to Divorce

In divorce arbitration, the divorce case is presented to a neutral party called an arbitrator who - like a judge - has the power to decide what should happen in the case. Arbitrators may be matrimonial lawyers or former judges but in any case, they should be familiar with the law. The arbitrator has power to compel decisions over the objection one or both parties. The decisions may be either binding or non-binding. If binding, parties are usually bound by the decision until you can prove the arbitrator was really biased, made a gross error of law or exceeded the arbitrator's authority. A non-binding decision may be appealed, but if the end result is the same as the first decision or more favorable to the other spouse, the spouse who appealed may be ordered to pay the other's costs.

Because, unlike a mediator, an arbitrator may make decisions that you may not like, picking an arbitrator is critical. Generally you and your spouse are allowed to settle on who the arbitrator will be or set up the process of how the arbitrator will be selected if you cannot agree on a choice. Sometimes both parties are permitted to submit a list from which the judge chooses. Whatever the process, the arbitrator will act like a hired judge although not required to be a lawyer.

Remember that you will be paying for this service. Decide before hand if you will share the cost with your spouse or divide it. Arbitrators are often called upon when the divorce process derails because the parties can't agree on one issue such as who will pay for children's college tuition. Focusing one issue often moves the process along.

Actions When Divorcing

What To Do First
 
3 Ways to End Your Marriage
 
Learn Your Divorce ABC's
 
Find and Maintain Your Lawyer
 
Managing Your Lawyer
 
How To Avoid A Court Trial
 
If You Choose Mediation
 
If You Choose Arbitration
 
If You Choose Collaborative Law
 
How To Prepare For Alternative Dispute Resolution
 
If You Choose To Go To Trial
 
"Knowledge Is Powerful" Check List
 
Who Gets What Where
 
Know What Your Marriage Is Worth
 
Pensions: 12 Worst Mistakes Lawyers Make
 
7 Key Questions To Ask About Retirement Benefits
 
Divorce and the Military
 
Hidden Assets and How To Find Them
 
Taxes And Divorce
 
Divorce and Dividing Debt
 
When To File For Bankruptcy
 
Protect Your Credit Rating
 
Alimony
 
What About Your Children?
 
Emergency Court Orders
 
Appealing or Modifying Your Final Divorce Decree
 
Financial Transitions of Divorce
 
Divorce and Hard Assets
 
Divorce and Soft Assets
 
 

10 Ways To Feel Better Fast
 
How Friends And Family Can Help
 
Join A Group
 
Handle 'Divorce Anger'
 
Keep a Journal
 
Do You Need A Religious Divorce?
 

Ways To Move On