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Do You Need A Religious Divorce?

You may need more than a court order to end your marriage. Religious laws may also dictate your marriage status. It is not our purpose here to discuss religious law but to urge you to investigate further if you subscribe to a religion with a body of divorce law. These laws may affect your assets, children you may have now and in the future, any remarriage plans and, most important of all, your spiritual life.

Roman Catholics

Roman Catholics who seek to remarry after a civil divorce must obtain an annulment of their previous marriage in a church court or forfeit the right to take communion. The Pope recently reaffirmed this stance.

For More on Roman Catholicism and Divorce
North American Conference Of Separated and Divorced Catholics
Telephone: 541-893-6089

Jews

Under Jewish law, only men can initiate divorce. They can divorce their wives for little or no reason although provision in the "ketubah"," marriage contract, do protect certain rights. Jewish women must obtain a "get," a bill of divorce, from their husbands. If they remarry without one, they are considered to be adulterous and children from the marriage are considered illegitimate and barred from some Jewish marriages. Although the process is relatively simple, many Jewish women find themselves "agunah" (literally, anchored) in a Jewish marriage if their husbands refuse to issue a get or if husbands have deserted them and cannot be found.

More about Jewish Divorce
http://www.jewfaq.org/divorce.htm#Attitude

For Help in Getting a Jewish Divorce
http://www.kayama.org/

Muslims

Islam also has complex religious laws governing divorce, in which women do not have equal rights. Karamah, Muslim Women Lawyers for Human Rights, is drafting an Islamic marriage contract model Islamic marriage contract that would be recognized in American courts.

Islamic Divorce Laws
http://al-islam1.org/laws/divorce.html

Essay on Islam and Divorce
http://home.swipnet.se/islam/articles/divorce.htm

Actions When Divorcing

What To Do First
 
3 Ways to End Your Marriage
 
Learn Your Divorce ABC's
 
Find and Maintain Your Lawyer
 
Managing Your Lawyer
 
How To Avoid A Court Trial
 
If You Choose Mediation
 
If You Choose Arbitration
 
If You Choose Collaborative Law
 
How To Prepare For Alternative Dispute Resolution
 
If You Choose To Go To Trial
 
"Knowledge Is Powerful" Check List
 
Who Gets What Where
 
Know What Your Marriage Is Worth
 
Pensions: 12 Worst Mistakes Lawyers Make
 
7 Key Questions To Ask About Retirement Benefits
 
Divorce and the Military
 
Hidden Assets and How To Find Them
 
Taxes And Divorce
 
Divorce and Dividing Debt
 
When To File For Bankruptcy
 
Protect Your Credit Rating
 
Alimony
 
What About Your Children?
 
Emergency Court Orders
 
Appealing or Modifying Your Final Divorce Decree
 
Financial Transitions of Divorce
 
Divorce and Hard Assets
 
Divorce and Soft Assets
 
 

10 Ways To Feel Better Fast
 
How Friends And Family Can Help
 
Join A Group
 
Handle 'Divorce Anger'
 
Keep a Journal
 
Do You Need A Religious Divorce?
 

Ways To Move On