A publicationMarriage, as it is lived and recorded
Equality in Marriage
Entry1.1
SectionCeremony
What it isA practice

Read aloud three times

Banns: the intention read publicly on three separate occasions so that anyone with an objection had a chance to make it. A public-notice system that predates any central registry, and the reason so many marriages happened in one particular season.

Read the entry
A handwritten banns notice clipped to a glass door with metal fasteners
A hand in a suit sleeve signs a printed form with a black pen
Register

In the same column

Printed registers fix what gets recorded. Once a form has a column for occupation, occupation is recorded for everyone — and once it has none, that fact vanishes.

Two gold wedding bands balanced on a leafy green branch
Tokens

A band with no beginning

A plain circle chosen because it has no start and no end — a reading applied to the object long after people had been using rings for entirely practical reasons.

Open handwritten marriage account ledgers with fountain pens and lit candles on a wooden desk
Daily Round

Who kept the accounts

Household accounting was frequently the wife's work regardless of who owned the property, and the surviving books are some of the best evidence of how houses ran.

Brought In

What the chest held

A dowry chest was an inventory as much as a container: linen counted, listed and sometimes valued, because it might have to be returned.

Names

Who changed, and who did not

Name change on marriage is a custom, not a universal, and several European traditions never adopted it at all.

Ceremony

The witnesses

Two people whose only job was to have been present, and whose names outlast them.


In some places the ring is worn on the right hand, in some on the left, and in a few the question has changed sides more than once without anyone recording why.

Six sectionsBrowse everything
Section 1

Ceremony

The rite itself, and who was entitled to perform it.

Section 2

Register

The document, its columns and what they were for.

Section 3

Tokens

Rings and the other objects that stood for the thing.

Section 4

Brought In

Dowry, chest and inventory — what each side arrived with.

Section 5

Names

What people were called afterwards, and who decided.

Section 6

Daily Round

The household as a working arrangement.